The #metoo-movement has had a bit of a week, hasn’t it? One of the original Harvey Weinstein accusers, Italian actress Asia Argento, was herself accused of sexual assault on a minor. And that’s so very inconvenient for an increasingly politicised movement of feminist empowerment.
It is hard to come to grips with supporting a victim that isn’t herself innocent. It’s hard to have a sinner as a figurehead. Victimization and innocence goes so well together. People are shit at nuanced perceptions of each other. And when you make a political movement all about the immaculate morals of a demographic of victims, it is so very, very hard to disassociate the cause from the often not-so-innocent humans at the head of it.
A big argument among the #metoo:ers has been that specifically men have been poorly taught how to act appropriately toward women. A few men tried to include themselves as victims of sexual harassment in the work place, but they were quickly booted out of the #metoo-movement by the more misandrist elements thereof. Men were supposed to be the villains. It was supposed to be a systemic issue of male predations, of women standing up against the amorphous patriarchy. If people would begin to nuance the subject, claim that sexual harassment wasn’t solely a gender-issue, but a people-issue, then maybe the more radical feminist side of the outrage would have to share the thunder. Then they would have to come to terms with the fact that women aren’t a priori morally superior to men. That women aren’t the only victims. And that women aren’t all innocent. And infinitely more important, that you can be both a sinner and a victim.
”An eye for an eye” is still a prevalent sentiment in the reptilian core of the human psyche. We’ll probably never be rid of it. People keep musing that rapists should be raped themselves. That child molesters should have their genitalia removed. Morbid, poetic, almost Dante-esque, punishments to sate our need for vindication.
So, now that it is coming to light that one of the originators of the #metoo-movement is a pedophile and child molester, would it make it less heinous that she was sexually assaulted herself by the monster Weinstein? Isn’t that what the public, what large parts of the #metoo-movement thinks? Isn’t that why feminists and activists come crawling out of the woodwork to try and defend their disgraced idols? Isn’t that why academics and professors have flocked to the aid of another accused sexual abuser, Avital Ronell, professor at NYU and prolific feminist and humanitarian writer, implying that Avital Ronell should be ”excused” for her sexual misconduct due to her sizeable academic work? Because a villain can’t be a victim, and you can’t let your cause be tarnished by the moral compromise when your heroes break.
This is all so very wrong. A victim does not have to be an innocent. Sexual abuse, or abuse of any other sort for that matter, does not only befall the saints and the virtuous. It’s always ugly. It is always an affront to our society whenever, wherever, and to whomever it happens. Be they men, or women, or molesters themselves.
For as long as you keep putting mere people up on a pedestal, politicise them to suit your agenda, you’re going to keep being disappointed. Because eventually, everyone becomes a victim. And no one is innocent.
/Sebastian Lindberg 28/8-2018